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Julie, sorry the day didn't finish off as well as the first dive. You have already showed the courage to share your experience, that is a positive first step.

I hope you don't mind me sharing a few thoughts. First, you and Will are OK. Thats the important thing. Its not like Wales beat England at Rugby again!! We are all taught different things happen to different people on different days; there are no absolutes. But that is what is allowed for in planning and personal factors. I gave some assistance to someone Narked at 32m who was a bit freaked by it on a trip; they cut all alcohol on the trip and dived shallower to rebuild confidence and had a great trip.

You with your mates/buddies will work out a plan to build back your confidence. A pool session and bimble under Swanage Pier with mates sounds good.

Talk to Will, he will have made a decision on his actions considering his own situation. That is what buddies do and I believe that he just wants to help you get over it. We share this passion for the sport and understand the basis we take part in it. The only time a buddy will be unhappy to dive with you is if you aren't taking the necessary precautions.

I am sure everyone wants and will support you to get back into the water and enjoy your passion. Just build it back up slowly.

And if you need a buddy, just call.

Richie.

The "Ladybrid"!