We all have different ideas of what is safe and what isn't. We have to be careful not to push those views down people's throats. Some of us are getting quite practiced at biting our tongues
Just becuase we see something as appropriate or not doesn't mean others will understand or agree.
At the end of the day, we all make our decisions about whom we will and will not dive with. That's all that matters in the end. I can't imagine that Martin cares that everyone will think he's a suicidal nutcase with the life expectancy of a mouse wearing "eau du catnip" in a room full of leopards. We all make our own choices in life and as long as we don't hurt anyone else, then ce la vie.