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[purple vonny]

I think that posting while lathered is the very best of ideas. My old Dad used to say "in Vino veritas".

So, you were keener than her? Not good. It's not that you should not appear keen. It is just that you should save that for someone who is equally keen. You are young and handsome and it will happen. Soon.

[Letz]

Originally Posted by Ahoy

Well, i'll have one for you as well now.

Cheers

[yazzyfooty]

Originally Posted by Ahoy

Marvelous powers, although I concluded matters due to an imbalance of keeness (not easy). I really shouldn't post when getting leathered but it is therapeutic (both the booze and the posting)!

Ooh dear you obviously didnt take heed from the advise you was offered the last time when you made a post regarding a female friend you was keen on and who was going on holiday.

Dont let this deter you but also I do think you need to hold back a bit as intensity so early in a friendship/relationship can be very off putting to some people. Be patient as Vonny said you are young and handsome and you have plenty time. Hmmm thats an idea......... I am looking for a toy boy are you going to volunteer?

[Sparky750]

Told you mate come out with us one weekend we'll find someone for you may only be a brief encounter but they truly are the best kind I've got to say it "There are plenty more fish in the sea" life gets hard sometimes where women are concerned but i always found it best to just enjoy the moment if something comes of it something comes of it if not hey you enjoyed the moment.







God i'm getting soft in my old age but let me know when your ready for the strip club phase of the break up i'm there with a fist full of dancing dollars

[Letz]

Originally Posted by purple vonny

I think that posting while lathered is the very best of ideas. My old Dad used to say "in Vino veritas".

So, you were keener than her? Not good. It's not that you should not appear keen. It is just that you should save that for someone who is equally keen.

Ahh, but that someone may seem just as keen at the beginning, doesn't everyone. Holding back and/or pretending is surely just 'playing games'
Honesty may hurt but at least you know where you are

[yazzyfooty]

Originally Posted by Sixsquid

Ahh, but that someone may seem just as keen at the beginning, doesn't everyone. Holding back and/or pretending is surely just 'playing games'
Honesty may hurt but at least you know where you are

But there are some people that get the most enjoyment out of the actual hunt and when the prey is caught they soon lose interest (very annoying type of person). So there is a case of it worth remaining slightly aloof as a way of protecting oneself and that way it reduces the chances of being hurt and allows you to review the relationship without the nuisance of emotions being involved.

[Scubee]

Originally Posted by yazzyfooty

But there are some people that get the most enjoyment out of the actual hunt and when the prey is caught they soon lose interest (very annoying type of person). So there is a case of it worth remaining slightly aloof as a way of protecting oneself and that way it reduces the chances of being hurt and allows you to review the relationship without the nuisance of emotions being involved.

That is still playing games, which isn't nice. Honesty is the best policy. Emotions are always involved in any relationship, right from the very beginning. I don't see how any relationship can be 'reviewed' without emotions being involved.

It is all too easy to get swept up in the moment.

Originally Posted by Sixsquid

As for "what goes around comes around " ... if that's true I must have been a right bastard bloke in a former life

Ditto

[Diving Dude]

The difference between the sexes.

The girls analyze it and the guys say go to strip club.

[Letz]

Originally Posted by Diving Dude

The difference between the sexes.

The girls analyze it and the guys say go to strip club.

Girls try to learn from their "mistakes"/errors in judgement. Mostly 'cos they hurt more and really don't want to keep feeling like that

Btw, it's analySe, unless you've gone yankee

[Diving Dude]

Originally Posted by Sixsquid

Btw, it's analySe, unless you've gone yankee

See! you're doing it again.

As for the z, l'm crap at spelling and the spellcheck on my 'puter is American English, l spot it most times but this slipped through.

Am l forgiven?

EDIT

Anyhow, for the next thrre days l'm going to post in Dell boy french, because we should've been in Froggie land.