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Old 10-01-05, 03:55 PM
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If someone comes in rude and agressive, then being rude and agressive back will only heighten the tension not reduce it, and if someone comes in being calm and needing help/advice, then there is no cause to be rude and agressive either.

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They are paid by the govt, from my taxes, to treat people using basic human relationship principles and I expect to be treated with respect, until such point that I no longer deserve it (ie become abusive etc).
Yeah, I am serious.

You can be firm, authoritative and principled WITHOUT being rude.

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If someone comes in rude and agressive, then being rude and agressive back will only heighten the tension not reduce it, and if someone comes in being calm and needing help/advice, then there is no cause to be rude and agressive either.

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Yeah, I am serious.

You can be firm, authoritative and principled WITHOUT being rude.

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Juz,

Only replying to "there is no excuse for being rude to customers".

You're quite annoyed aren't you? I can tell, I'm very perceptive .

Good luck with the job hunt.

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Juz,

Only replying to "there is no excuse for being rude to customers".

You're quite annoyed aren't you? I can tell, I'm very perceptive .

Good luck with the job hunt.

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lol, no, I'm ok, sorry if I'm ranting a bit, but I come from a customer service background, so it's one of my pet hates. And just because it's a govt unit, I don't think it makes a difference.

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lol, no, I'm ok, sorry if I'm ranting a bit, but I come from a customer service background, so it's one of my pet hates. And just because it's a govt unit, I don't think it makes a difference.
There is one important difference for customer service between Govt and the private sector - the govt can't choose their customers. Where a bank could ban a customer for life if they start getting abusive, the same is not true for parts of the govt, the DWp being a good example.

By their very nature the DWP have to deal with the people at the bottom of the heap. A guy I used to work with had to arrange a police escort on some of the home visits he used to do - in the private sector the company would just say 'stuff it' and wouldn't allow them to be the customer any more.
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